Let me introduce you to Scot McKay.
Scot’s been helping men with his dating advice for nearly a decade with a unique approach he calls “character-based”.
Scot talks about how a masculine, confident man of true character and leadership skill is an authentic representation of the man the most desirable women want, obviating the need for “tricks” and “techniques”.
His concepts transcend mere pickup and seduction and describe a state of having control over one’s dating life, culminating in the ability to attract the highest quality women on Earth,
I’m not politically correct and proud of it! I’m an unrepentant fan of men being men and women being women so I like Scot’s no bullshit approach. (I also think that many of the “Pickup artist” techniques that some dating experts use has a “creepy vibe” and are a bit sad and needy) so feel that Scot’s character based advice will not only help men find great women, but they’ll also avoid the creepy vibe, gain more self respect and enjoy the process.
To find out more about Scot click here
Here’s an article that Scot kindly wrote exclusively for us here at LookbetterOnline.com (Thanks Scot!)
“There’s someone for everyone”(And other ridiculous dating advice)
It never ceases to amaze me what passes for dating advice among the masses. Among dubious classics such as “just be yourself”,”friends first”, “be nice and comb your hair” and “women love jerks” is the particular gem we’re going to address today:
…”There’s someone for everyone.”
No real steps
Now, it’s important to realize the mindset behind most “armchair” dating advice. Basically, it’s given in hopes of making someone feel better about his or her situation without providing any real, substantial steps to actually improving anything.
Consider how many grandmas have told dateless college students, “Someone will come along and love you just the way you are, honey.”
Well, guess what? I’m not your Grandma. And after nearly eight years immersed in this stuff I’ve long since gotten up out of the “armchair” and into the saddle.
So it’s my solemn duty to inform you that just like whatever Grandma told you, resting your hope in a pie-in-the-sky notion like
“There’s someone for everyone” is a BAD IDEA.
Really, I can’t call it a poor strategy. It’s actually a NON-strategy.
To be clear, I’m not disputing that there is someone for everyone. I absolutely do believe that every human being can and should find
love….The real problem is that the entire premise smacks of SETTLING, doesn’t it?
Let me spell it out for you: If you’re passively hoping (another NON-strategy, by the way) for just ONE woman to fall into your life out of the blue, then you’re already completely off-track.
Simply stated, a decidedly more exciting reality awaits any “big four” man of strong character who is confident, masculine in the way women define it and able to make women feel safe and
comfortable in his presence.
Indeed, there may be “someone for everyone”, but there are UNLIMITED OPTIONS for that guy.
Don’t just wait…the time is now!
Wouldn’t you rather have your pick of LOTS of adoring women rather than waiting around for “someone”?
Think about it. If there’s “someone” out there for you who you’re wishing upon a star in hopes of meeting someday, what kind of choice does that imply?
If you answered “zero”, you’re right on.
Passivity will DESTROY your level of success with women, assuming you’ve achieved any success thus far.
If you haven’t yet experienced success, then that same passivity will flatly PROHIBIT you from ever tasting it.
When you stop looking
Yes, I realize I’m making a strong statement. But you can’t simply wait around for “love to happen when you least expect it”. Even worse shade tree advice than that is, “when you stop looking for love, love will find you”.
Man, that last one has to be the biggest “whopper” of all. Why don’t we all just quit our jobs and start buying lottery tickets instead, too?
Yet again, all the examples of bad advice I’ve given here really do share that common theme, don’t they? They’re all “fluff” and no substance.
Who can expect to accomplish ANYTHING in this life without proactively going about making it happen?
Love, or success with women if you prefer, is no exception.
I can promise you that if you’re on a surrealistically long “losing streak” right now–or have always struck out with every woman you’ve ever really wanted–then things aren’t going to “magically” change without any direct input from you. The perfect woman of your dreams isn’t going to suddenly descend from heaven one day with a halo in a beam of light.
Man up and go after what you want
You’re going to have to deserve what you want. You have to be the man of HER dreams.
For better or worse, that means you’ll have to make an effort…not only to be that “big four” man, but to man up and go after who you want.
You have to conquer fear of “rejection” and/or that you’re “bothering” women by striking up a conversation with them.
Yes…this all involves some real-world action on your part. But it doesn’t have to be as hard or as complicated as you think. Results can come quickly.
And the journey itself can even be exciting as you see your fortunes improve steadily.
Believe me when I tell you that there’s no better feeling than being able to CHOOSE the woman (or women) you want to be with.
Having options means making INFORMED choices. And informed choices are BETTER choices. Better choices lead to better RELATIONSHIPS…every time.
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