Feel like the romance has gone out of your relationship and that your partner may be looking elsewhere to fulfill his needs? It may time to take some action to regain his interest in you and only you.
Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder
There is nothing like a clingy woman to send a man running in the opposite direction. And the more he distances himself, the more clingy women tend to become.
It may seem like the entirely wrong approach, but stepping back from the relationship may give him the space he needs and you a better perspective on what he needs.
Take a trip for a few days and let him miss having you around. Use the time to just be you, outside of the relationship, and rediscover what got him interested in you in the first place.
Don’t chatter constantly about everything all the time. He doesn’t really want to hear it and he isn’t actually listening. Rather keep some things to yourself and wait for him to ask before you give away everything.
The less you talk and the more dirty little secrets you keep, the more mystery you will create. This is guaranteed to keep him interested in trying to solve the mystery surrounding you. Keep him guessing!
Don’t Be The Damsel In Distress All The Time
The damsel in distress routine where your man needs to be your knight in shining armor, rescuing you continuously, can become tiresome. Show him that you are strong and independent and that you don’t need him to take care of you all the time.
On the other hand, don’t become so independent that you don’t actually need him. Let him change a light bulb or do some handyman tasks around the house. This will allow him to feel needed without creating the illusion that you simply could not live without him.
Men are by nature hunters and enjoy the chase. Keep him off balance and never let him think that he has won you or that he owns you. Point out other men that you may find attractive or appealing in some way.
Always remember that every chase should end in a capture. So give him a moment after every hunt where you provide him with your full attention and make him feel like he is the only important person on the entire planet.
In The Bedroom
Get out of your comfort zone and be creative and sexy in the bedroom. Buy new lingerie or dress-up and play games. Some studies have revealed that men think about sex about every seven seconds (more realistically, between 30 and 40 times a day) so make sure these thoughts are about you and not someone else.
It is inevitable that some of the initial romance, excitement and intimacy will ebb and change during a relationship. But there is no reason that you can’t take some steps to keep him interested long after the honeymoon phase is over.
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