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Could a man see you as Needy or Cold? (Dating Profile Mistakes for women)

Your dating profile could be too Needy or t0o Cold

UntitledI read a thousand women’s profiles and to a man many of them are either “Needy” or “Cold”.

Here are statements I see every day “I’ve waited my life for the perfect man and now it’s our time” or “I’m ready to be his one.” and “I’m looking for a love that’s devoted”

What the man reads

What the man reads is: “I rely on relationships for my happiness” or  “I want to spend all my time right next to you and never leave you alone” and “I have impossible expectations”

While there may be a romantic element to these statements- Please don’t put it  put in a dating profile- A good guide is “If you wouldn’t say it then don’t write it”.

Too Cold

The other side of the coin is that a women’s dating profile can end up too “Cold”…as if they don’t need a man

Women over 40 are the worst at this! They sound like they have no room in their busy lives for a relationship.
Statements like “I don’t need a man, but it would be nice to have one in my life.” Or, “I’m fine without a partner but I’ll make room only for the right one” are hardly going to make a guy feel special, or wanted, or show that you are available but still Thousands of women write these statements.


Guys want to feel needed yet not smothered…
And if you’re not sure about how much to write then shorter is usually better (Guys look at the photos more anyway!)

Something else to think about!

The stats are in on good dating photos. The more effort you put into looking your best, the more romantic options you’ll have and the better choices you have to avail yourself of. Don’t sell yourself short. You’ll want options going forward and whether you have one or two or dozens, you’ll want every one of them. Good photos give you options. Once you settle on one of your new options, the heartbreak you felt a month ago or a year ago will be a distant memory. Just like your ex…

Having great online dating photos is the most important thing you can do when dating online, so visit LookBetterOnline and and see how with great profile pictures we can help make your online dating experience successful and more fun than you thought possible!

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