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Interview with Top Dating Coach Karenna Alexander

I’m a believer

I’m a believer that to be successful with online dating that there are 3 simple steps to vastly improve your chance of success.

Step 1. Get great Photos…Otherwise No one will read your profile.

Step 2. Create a well written Profile and create more interest…so that people who like your photos will want to meet you.

Step 3. Have a strategy for dates and dating

So the first steps (getting great Photos and a well written profile) will improve the amount of people that you can date online, but you also need a strategy to enjoy the process of dating!

Dating Coaches

This is where dating coaches are of immense value, we have coaches for sports and business and life…so why not hire a coach who has experience in helping you find someone special!

Meet Coach Karenna

I recently had the opportunity to speak with Dating Coach Karenna Alexander,

Karenna became a coach more than 10 years ago when she was trained by the authors of The Rules: Time Tested Secrets for For Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right, Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider; In Karenna’s words:

“They wrote a book that really respects the differences between men and women, and it totally struck a nerve with me and many other women. I wanted to know everything I could, so I took their course and wanted to share everything I know. It’s like a secret formula that works wonders.”

Karenna loves helping women date better and with self-esteem. This is her passion – she also told me:

“I do this 24 hours a day and not get bored. After learning these dating rules, my life totally changed. I weeded out timewasters and have better relationships, and I’m so happy to share what I learned

To find out more about Karenna click here

Questions for a Dating coach with over a decade of experience

I asked Karenna a couple of questions recently, Here are her expert answers:

Giles (LookBetterOnline.com): Any advice for single ladies over 40?

Karenna: Make sure you get out there, date online and go to events where you will meet single men. It’s harder to meet men naturally as you get older, so you have to go to singles venues and date online. You just have to be in it to win it and dating online is a big part of that these days.

Also, at this age, some women have seen their fair share of heartbreak and they become more guarded and even resigned to living alone. But I tell women not to give up. It only takes one. If you follow The Rules way of dating, which allows you to focus only on the guys who want you, you don’t waste time.

Giles (LookBetterOnline.com): What do most online daters don’t know that prevents them finding love online?

Karenna:Many online daters give up too soon. Some try it for a month and after a few bad dates, they shut down their account, thinking “Oh well, I gave it a shot. It doesn’t work.”
Some people meet the right one right away, but for others, it takes longer. Another important thing to remember about online dating is that initially your profile – and a big part of that is your photos –  is all the other person has to go on. So don’t be careless about your photo. You need a few really good ones ( a face and a body shot). I always recommend that my clients go to a professional photographer for photos. It’s worth it.

More advice on photos

Did you know that Dating giants OK Cupid/Match.com examined 11.4 million photos and found that people who post a certain
type of dating photo get 2-4 times better results?

LEARN what 95% of people DONT know about their Dating Photos that is often stopping them from meeting someone special Click here (And then scroll down the page to see DATING PROFILE PHOTO SECRETS)

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Don’t take Online Dating too seriously

Don’t lose the fun

I agree that it’s important to find someone special to spend your time with.But waaaaay to often I see people who are so serious about online dating that the fun of it has gone!

In the spirit of light-heartedness

Sometimes you just have to laugh about online dating, here is an image and a few lines to hopefully make you laugh and see the lighter side of life…enjoy!

Online dating Humor!


Man Who Has Something Seriously Wrong With Him On A Fundamental Level Leaves That Part Off OKCupid Profile

Do you know the data behind dating photos?

Did you know that Dating giants OK Cupid/Match.com examined 11.4 million photos and found that people who post a certain
type of dating photo get 2-4 times better results?

LEARN what 95% of people DONT know about their Dating Photos that is often stopping them from meeting someone special Click here (And then scroll down the page to see DATING PROFILE PHOTO SECRETS)
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Bad dating advice to avoid

When it comes to dating everyone has an opinion.
Here are 2 of the WORST dating tips that I’ve heard!

1. Play hard to get

Don’t be available for a last minute dates…and wait before calling or texting him/her back.
Here’s the logic is to show them that you have a great life full of good things and great friends, who make you important and make them, want you. The problem with this advice is that you’ll risk missing some wonderful spontaneous moments and that you can miss quality people who just don’t like playing this game. Another version of this advice is the phrase “Treat em mean, keep em keen”-which is a guarantee to drive away anyone with good self-esteem

2. Don’t sleep with your date until “x” number of days

Some people advise that the longer you wait until you have sex the better relationship that you’ll have and then there are others who advise you to sleep with people more quickly (as if you’re not sexually compatible that it’s best to find out before you’re in love with someone.)
Now I’m not here to moralize, but what I do know is that you need to work out this number for yourself, for some people it may be no sex before marriage, for others it’ll work much faster…the key is to think about what works for you and avoid advice of others

Some Good Advice

Whether you are 25 or 95 Having great online dating photos is the single most important thing you can do when dating online, so visit LookBetterOnline and find out why more than 98% of our customers get better dates, and see how with great profile pictures we can help make your online dating experience successful and more fun than you thought possible!

New Dating Website ‘Jess Meet Ken’

“If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me that she had been approached by a creepy guy online, then I’d be a rich man”.

Many women
Many women feel overwhelmed when it comes to online dating as they get many unwanted emails from “Creeper-in-the-bushes-kind-of-guys” or men who are totally unsuited to them!
But it no longer has to be a challenge as recently a new Boston-based dating website are in the process of changing things!

Jess, Meet Ken,  launched last month, had the brilliant idea of putting the control of making and finding dates in the hands of women daters.

As easy as 1-2-3-4

The idea is super-simple-And its based on human nature! (remember your friend’s wife who tried to set you up with her girlfriends a few years ago?)

Step 1.
Women  log onto the JessMeetKen website through Facebook and select a man in their lives that they love and trust in a friendly way (And all the Facebook data stays private too)

Step 2.
Then they answer 10 questions about him-then fill out a short profile saying why he’s a catch. All the guy has to do is agree to take part.

Step 3.
When a woman sees a guys profile that your another woman has posted then the women take it from there, and message each other, ask questions and find out if the guy might be a good match.

Step 4.
If the women think it’s a good match then they can get in touch with the lucky guy!

Again the control is in the hands of the women so if a single woman finds a man that she’s interested in meeting or getting to know, she gets in touch with the woman who posted that guy.

All guys are vouched for and cannot post their own profiles

The site’s CEO and co-founder, Ken Deckinger told me  “All the guys on the website are vouched for and recommended by a woman.”

Women are more honest with each other about what’s attractive about the man and this definitely avoids the “Creepy guy vibe” as most creepy guys don’t have many women friends to vouch for them!…This is a HUGE plus in my opinion and I’m sure a lot of women will agree…I”ll say it again a HUGE plus for women

Men cannot post their own profiles….Women search the profiles and then reach out to the woman who posted their guy friend to make the connection.

All kinds of women can post guys!

and ANY women can post a man to JessMeetKen for other women to look at!
It could be a
Male friend or a Cousin or a Son or a Brother!

 

So How Did Jess meet Ken!

I like this site as it’s Founded by real people with real stories!
Ken knows that this kind of dating works-it’s how he met his wife Jess. Here’s how it happened:
Ken’s friend and Business partner Adele posted his profile on a dating site, adding his photo and a few words about why Ken was fabulous.
When Jess spotted Ken’s profile and asked Adele for more info Adele immediately spotted a match. She forwarded Ken Jess’s note with the subject line: “Holy S#*% it’s Your Wife.” He says 20 minutes into their first date they knew they were going to get married.

Definitely worth a try

Simply stated  I highly recommend signing up for this website., it’s a great idea from great people.
To visit JessMeetKen CLICK HERE

2 Simple tips to enjoy the process of online dating

Here’s a familiar story:

“So I got my membership with Match.com and eHarmony, uploaded my photos and spent hours crafting a finely written profile.

It’s not that I don’t go out on dates…I usually meet someone once a week…it’s just I’ve never met the right person. Most often I meet people and feel no chemistry!

All my friends all tell me they can’t believe that I’m still single after 6 months of dating-I just want to find “the one” and end this loneliness…I hate dating”

Frustrated

It’s easy to get frustrated when you’re looking for love and haven’t found it yet! Here are 2 simple tips to help you enjoy the process of dating until you find that someone special.online dating process

1. Be realistic

It took me a year to meet the girl of my dreams, and I had to go on a lot of dates, this is NORMAL for many people, so accept that you’ll meet a lot of people while you’re looking for that perfect partner, make peace with this fact and realize that this is the way it often works.

2.Take the pressure off to Enjoy the process

Take the pressure off yourself on a date…think of it as “just meeting people”
instead of going a date with the aim of behaving perfectly and creating a great impression, be authentic, enjoy your time getting to know the other person, accept the fact that you most likely will meet a lot of people who aren’t your match and feel at ease enough to share your opinions, have interesting conversations and laugh.

When we release ourselves to the process and stop forcing it. Then we’ll have more fun and stand a better chance of meeting someone special

Dating online? Regardless of your age, an important thing you need to know…

Whether you are 25 or 95 Having great online dating photos is the single most important thing you can do when dating online, so visit LookBetterOnline and find out why more than 98% of our customers get better dates, and see how with great profile pictures we can help make your online dating experience successful and more fun than you thought possible!

3 Dating tips if you’re over 60!

A death of a spouse or divorces have left many baby boomers single as they head toward their senior years.
If your over fifty, are still full of life and want to spend your remaining years with someone to love, then what can you do?

3 Simple tips

Here’s 4 simple tips to remember when dating!

Tip 1: You’re never too old to look good

It doesn’t matter how old you are or where you are going on a date , it is critical that you look your best on a date. Buy a new outfit for a date, get a new haircut and do whatever you need to do to look your very best!

Tip 2: Choose the right dating website

Ourtime.com or SeniorPeoplemeet.com are great websites to begin to meet people.
But remember things have changed since you were dating so remember that when it comes dating online, be careful before giving out your personal information to anyone you meet on the internet and always meet in a public space the first few times you see someone.

Tip 3: Have fun (And don’t worry too much about your adult children)

It’s your life and you deserve to enjoy it and have fun!valentines day dating advice 001
For many seniors with adult children the following scenario is a common one- You meet someone special online and then when you share that you’re finally dating your adult children don’t approve!
For many disapproving adult children regardless of how old they are they still feel that “you’re no longer with mom/dad”, and the thought of you in another relationship hurts them.
On a rational level your adult child may not say “I don’t want you dating,” but their behavior may reveal this!
The best medicine is to talk to them and tell them that you deserve to find love…and while
it’s tough to have this conversation is important to have…you deserve the opportunity to find love!

Another important thing you need to know…get good dating profile pictures

Having  great dating profile pictures is the single most important thing you can do when dating online, so visit www.LookBetterOnline.com and find out why more than 98% of our customers get better dates, and see how with great online dating photos we can help make your online dating experience successful and more fun than you thought possible!

“Date the real person-Not the potential”

A couple of days ago while driving I switched the radio on and found a radio program that was just ending…

201109092029320393491It was all about women who were dating the wrong guys…the expert (Who I didn’t get to hear who she was!) Gave some really good advice to women listeners, she said.

“Date the real person-Not the potential”

This in my opinion the main reasons intelligent, attractive women remain stuck in a dead-end relationship

“OK” I hear you say… “But my date is different”- “He really does have potential, he just lost his job in a tough economy”!

Women…There’s a vast difference between a guy who’s lost his job and is doing all he can to get a new job AND a guy who has the potential to be a great match for you!

Successful daters-(Even if they find someone attractive) will dismiss a date who fails to meet their criteria for a happy relationship!

You’re not going to FIX him, and you shouldn’t even want to try!

Also think about this!

Online dating profile photos before and after (10)Having great online dating profile photos  (Taken in a specific way) Is the most important thing you can do when dating online, so visit LookBetterOnline and and see how with great profile pictures we can help make your online dating experience successful and more fun than you thought possible!