Online dating is so new that not many people know how to navigate this tricky world of digital romance. One of the best ways to help yourself is knowing what NOT to do. Here are the 5 biggest turn offs committed by men and women in the online dating world.

1. Bad photos

Out of focus shots, too many group photos, low quality images, bad lighting and the list goes on. You want your online dating pics to show off the best you but also the real you. Make sure you have clear, in focus photos with decent lighting.

Also, limit the amount of group photos you have. You don’t want a potential match to have to guess which person you are in the photograph or find your friends more attractive than you. If you need new photographs hire a pro or if you are strapped for cash, get a friend with a good camera to take some great pics for you.

2. Whining about your past

“tired of games” or “looking for someone real” “trying to find a girl that isn’t crazy.” This highlights your emotional baggage and makes you sounds resentful. It also looks like you have a negative view of the opposite sex. Not a great look. You want your profile to show off who you are as a person, not your scars from the past.

3. Acting like you are too good for online dating

If you were really above online dating, you wouldn’t be online dating. You are also broadcasting a negative message that people engaged in online dating are beneath you… which, you know, probably won’t work for you in online dating. You shouldn’t be ashamed to be online dating, it’s just the way things are now. Also, it’s FUN!

4. Too many photos with alcohol

You might be a social drinker but too many photos of you with an alcoholic beverage will make it seem like you have a problem. One is fine, maybe 2 pictures, but anymore and you go from being a social drinker to a problem drinker. Also, make sure you don’t look intoxicated in any of your photos. Bad look!

5. No profile text

You aren’t being mysterious, you look like you either don’t care or are not a real profile. Make sure you write something about yourself. A good place to start is what you enjoy doing so list your hobbies, favourite foods, activities, etc. Make sure you sound positive and inviting. Steer clear of anything that makes you sound resentful.

Avoid this list of these massive pitfalls and you will be flirting with some cuties in no time. The main takeaways from this are have better profile pictures of yourself and make sure your profile text is laced with some positive and attractive information about yourself. We’d say good luck but you won’t need it after reading this article.

There’s a difference between a photo that generates lots of responses and a photo that generates a life-long relationship.

Who you Are

A photo shouldn’t just show what you look like; it should also show who you are.

For example, if you’re a little edgy and rebellious then a preppy photo will attract responses from people who won’t be great matches.

Don’t do this stuff!

i. The Cut-Out Ex

There are no circumstances in which it’s wise to use a picture with an ex cropped out. Even if your client looks great, it’s the ex who will dominate. Viewers will assume your client is still hung up on them and won’t believe that they can fill the space.

Dating your Ex Boyfriend/Girlfriend AGAIN…..then this pic is for you!

What you wear in your dating photo is as important as what you wear on the date.

You should look smart and casual at the same time.

There’s a difference between a photo that generates lots of responses and a photo that generates a life-long relationship.
A photo shouldn’t just show what you look like; it should also show who you are.

Can you remember dating when you were younger! This photo will make anyone with kids laugh

Many people ask me about glamor hair and makeup, here’s some great advice!

A glamour shot is never about creating a photograph that shows your real personality. It’s about creating a shot the photographer finds the
most pleasing.

How ironic is this!!!

Highly experienced with a love for photography

Rick  has been taking portrait photos for over a decade…yes 10 years and countless hours behind a lens perfecting his images!